fix #3174 (#3179)

# Description of Changes
fixes #3174 .
During initialization, entries were added to the `DelayQueue` but not to
`key_map`.

### Detailed Explanation:

1. `DelayQueue` is **not set-semantic**, so we track uniqueness with a
`key_map: FxHashMap` but that wasn't updated during initiliaziation.

2. `Scheduler::schedule` is **not transactional**: it enqueues reducers
even if the DB transaction later fails (abort, duplicate row, etc.). On
yield, `SchedulerActor` checks the DB before execution.


**Combined Effect**: A transaction that does not actually change a
scheduled entry but still calls `Scheduler::schedule` after a module
update will cause a duplicate entry in the `DelayQueue`, since `key_map`
does not yet contain that entry.

**Why It Didn’t Show Earlier**:
When a repeating reducer executes, we re-schedule it by updating both
`DelayQueue` and `key_map` correctly.
The bug only appears in the window after updating module but before the
first execution, if a transaction calls schedule without actually
modifying the DB row.

Which was indeed happening as per discord chat:
> but yeah most likely order of event was modue was updated
> and then update_scheduled_timers_from_static_data was called

window between update module and first execution is 1 hour for this
case.


## Repo steps:
1. publish this module, it makes `send_scheduled_message` reducer to be
called every 10 secs.
```rust
#[spacetimedb::table(name = scheduled_message, public, scheduled(send_scheduled_message))]
pub struct ScheduledMessage {
    #[primary_key]
    #[auto_inc]
    scheduled_id: u64,
    scheduled_at: ScheduleAt,
}

#[spacetimedb::reducer]
fn send_scheduled_message(ctx: &ReducerContext, sched: ScheduledMessage) -> Result<(), String> {
    info!("Sending scheduled message: {:?}", ctx.timestamp);
    Ok(())
}

#[spacetimedb::reducer(init)]
pub fn init(ctx: &ReducerContext) {
    ctx.db.scheduled_message().insert(ScheduledMessage {
        scheduled_id: 0,
        scheduled_at: Duration::from_secs(10).into(),
    });
}

#[spacetimedb::reducer]
pub fn update_timer(ctx: &ReducerContext) {
    for mut timer in ctx.db.scheduled_message().iter() {
        timer.scheduled_at = Duration::from_secs(10).into();
        ctx.db.scheduled_message().scheduled_id().update(timer);
        log::info!("building decay agent timer was updated");
    }
}
```
2. Update module to support automigration (add a table) and re-publish
it.
3. Call reducer `update_timer` and do it before first execution of
`send_scheduled_message` after updating module.
4. As `update_timer` doesn't change the existing scheduler but calls
`Scheduler::schedule` it will cause duplicate entry in `DelayQueue`.


# API and ABI breaking changes
N/A

# Expected complexity level and risk
1, pretty obvious fix.

# Testing
manually.
The code fix is straightforward, but the issue only becomes visible
under specific conditions.

crates/core/src/host/scheduler.rs

@@ -91,6 +91,7 @@ impl SchedulerStarter {
     // time to make it better right now.
     pub fn start(mut self, module_host: &ModuleHost) -> anyhow::Result<()> {
         let mut queue: DelayQueue<QueueItem> = DelayQueue::new();
+        let mut key_map = FxHashMap::default();
 
         let tx = self.db.begin_tx(Workload::Internal);
 
@@ -126,7 +127,17 @@ impl SchedulerStarter {
                     id_column,
                     at_column,
                 };
-                queue.insert_at(QueueItem::Id { id, at }, now_instant + duration);
+                let key = queue.insert_at(QueueItem::Id { id, at }, now_instant + duration);
+
+                // This should never happen as duplicate entries should be gated by unique
+                // constraint voilation in scheduled tables.
+                if key_map.insert(id, key).is_some() {
+                    return Err(anyhow!(
+                        "Duplicate key found in scheduler queue: table_id {}, schedule_id {}",
+                        id.table_id,
+                        id.schedule_id
+                    ));
+                }
             }
         }
 
@@ -134,7 +145,7 @@ impl SchedulerStarter {
             SchedulerActor {
                 rx: self.rx,
                 queue,
-                key_map: FxHashMap::default(),
+                key_map,
                 module_host: module_host.downgrade(),
             }
             .run(),